The Hemingway Solution

I've already made the necessary preparations.

It was only a few days ago that I decided on this course of action. It was raining that morning, and as I sat writing in my journal it suddenly came to me. I should have recognized the solution sooner of course, it was only a few years ago that Ernest took the same path, but for some reason it has eluded me for some time.

Perhaps it was simple fear, mixed with a hope that did not wish to be burdened by an ever intrusive reality. I had hoped that we could reach some form of reconciliation. I recognize that she no longer wishes to be a part of my life, and certainly I no longer of hers, yet I had hoped we could put aside our vitriol. I had hoped that some of the work I had done recently would be able to generate some amount of income which I could use to stave off the spectre of hunger, and worse, dependance, which has haunted my sleep of late. At the least, I had hoped for some happy news, some good word, to reach my ear. Anything to lift me from this dark depression.

But perhaps this is for the best. She and I will never again find peace, and if the world no longer has any interest in my work, better I suppose that I quit bothering them with it. And so it was with a kind of relieved acceptance that I made the first call and scheduled the cessation of my utilities.

It all took a few days of course. These sorts of things ought not be rushed. And yet, as I took each successive step drawing me ever nearer to this moment, I felt not so much an urge to be done, nor a fear of the doing, but rather a simple contentment. As though these final errands were a burden that could be lifted from off my shoulders, and that in so doing, I had done some small service for those to whom I would soon be doing a small disservice.

Of course there are always so many things to take care of. So many small steps. So many details. But each one seemed to fall into place almost effortlessly, and for the first time in these many months I felt some sense of accomplishment. It was as though in planning for this, and preparing for it, I was able to check off my list of things to do, and in so doing, able to find a renewed purpose to my days.

None of this made me regret or change my decision of course. I had set myself upon a path, and having so committed, could not now step away from it. To do so would pay the lie to the very sense of accomplishment I had been experiencing. It would return me to the bitter, failing, husk I had been collapsing into only days before.

So I scheduled the cessation of my utilities, and ended the phone service. I asked the mail carrier to hold my postage and called the newspaper and canceled my subscription. So many little details in a man's life. So many things you don't think of. The sum of a life I suppose could be taken from its contractual commitments. And in severing each of those commitments I was severing my ties to this world.

I went to the grocer and purchased the drop cloths. I needed enough to hang over the walls and windows, and to drape on the floors. Of course they had to be sturdy enough. I wouldn't be using the Boss & Co like he did, but there was sure to be a mess. The Boss & Co was effective to be sure, but simply not of my interest. I had always been more interested in pistols and revolvers and would of course be selecting one from my collection. Far better I thought to use the tools at hand than to acquire a new firearm simply for a single use. Not the work of a collector that.

I stayed up late last night thinking about what to say. It may be some days before they find the note I intend to leave, and there are sure to be questions. I have made my living with words, and now, at its ending, I was struggling to find the right ones. I didn't want to lay blame. I wished there was some way to assuage the guilt that some would surely feel. It isn't their fault, neither their decisions nor actions which led me here. Not something that was said or some perceived slight. Not even from her. It was my decision, and the one which I felt was right under the circumstances.

Ultimately, I decided to express as succinctly as I could my apologies and motivations.

I don't like to leave messes when I go away, but if I could have cleaned up any of this mess, I wouldn't be going away.

And so now, as I sip one last cup of tea and contemplate the milieu I have waiting when I return to my home, I find myself ready to go. I feel no fear of what is to come, and no sense of loss at what I leave behind.

The problems have mounted, and it is time for me to solve them. I have weighed the alternatives and rested upon the solution. The preparations are complete, and the time has come.

I will sip this last cup, and then return to my home. November in Pennsylvania always was a beautiful time. I can think of no better place to be going, nor any more lovely to leave.